By understanding and applying three natural principles, we can harmonize our true and false selves while fostering balance between individual growth and collective well-being.
In every aspect of our lives, we experience a dynamic interplay between our individual needs and desires and those of the collective. We are deeply interconnected—not only with other human beings but also with the Earth and all living things. At the same time, we each express a unique aspect of life, contributing to the world in ways big or small.
This same dynamic exists within us. At the center of ourselves lies what I call the true self—a consciousness and energy that existed before we were born and will continue to exist after we pass. This true self is part of the flow and creation of life, the potential that underpins everything. Surrounding the true self is what we’ve learned and taken on throughout our lives, which I refer to as the false self, the small self, or the ego. While we need this small self to navigate the world, we often wonder: how can our true self and false self work in harmony?
I believe there are three natural principles that can help us understand the relationship between the self and the collective, as well as the interplay between our true and small selves. These principles can guide our choices, relationships, and goals, fostering balance and well-being for both ourselves and the communities we’re part of.
Exploring the Three Principles
1. Revolution vs. Rotation
Just as the earth revolves around the sun while rotating on its axis, our lives reflect a balance between personal growth and contributing to a shared greater purpose. Revolution represents our alignment with a central goal or value, while rotation symbolizes our individual progress. Importantly, revolution must take precedence—prioritizing the greater good ensures that our personal growth supports a larger harmony. Without this balance, focusing solely on our self-interests risks disrupting the larger system we’re part of.
2. Centripetal vs. Centrifugal Forces
When something rotates, two forces come into play: centripetal force, which pulls it toward the center, and centrifugal force, which pushes it outward. These forces must remain in balance for the system to stay stable. In our lives, centripetal force can represent community and connection, while centrifugal force symbolizes individuality and the ego. If we only focus on our own needs (centrifugal), we risk becoming disconnected. If we prioritize the collective to the detriment of ourselves (centripetal), we can lose our individuality. Achieving balance between these forces allows us to thrive as individuals within a harmonious community.
Think of swinging a rock with a sling. The centripetal force keeps the rock in orbit, while the centrifugal force maintains momentum. Without both forces in balance, the rock would either fly off or fall inward. Similarly, we need both personal freedom and connection to live fulfilling lives.
3. Fairness vs. Equality
Fairness and equality are often used interchangeably, but they serve distinct roles. Fairness recognizes individual differences—in abilities, contributions, and circumstances—and seeks to provide what each person needs to succeed. Equality ensures that everyone has an equal starting point. When fairness is prioritized over equality, it allows for realistic and compassionate solutions that consider each person’s unique situation. For example, giving the same amount of food to a child and an adult might seem equal, but fairness would adjust the portions based on their different needs.
Fairness fosters trust and respect, paving the way for a balanced and thriving society. When fairness precedes equality, it creates a foundation where honesty, diligence, and responsibility can flourish.
Applying These Natural Principles in Life
These principles aren’t just abstract ideas—they’re at work all around us. Consider the human body: each cell has the potential to become anything, but it aligns its choices with the needs of the whole. This self-organizing system allows the body to function harmoniously. Similarly, our acquired self aligns with our true self when we consciously follow these principles, creating balance and purpose in our lives.
When we lose connection to our true selves, we may feel scattered or question our purpose. Re-centering on our true selves—the steady force at the heart of our being—helps us navigate life with clarity and intention. By living in alignment with these natural principles, we can strengthen both our inner and outer relationships, fostering a sense of harmony and fulfillment.
These principles remind us that we’re all part of a larger whole, interconnected yet unique—just as we began by acknowledging the push and pull between individuality and the collective, so too do we find that balance in the relationship between our true selves and the world around us. By honoring both the self and the collective, we can create lives that are balanced, meaningful, and aligned with the natural flow of existence.
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3 principles for balancing the individual and the collective was brilliant! Thank you so much!